In May, as families pause to celebrate mothers and the memories they have given us, Carolyn Goldner is especially grateful for the moments she still gets to share with her mother, Norma Crawford.
Norma, who will turn 99 in July, has lived at Lutheran Life Villages Pine Valley Assisted Living for nearly three years. Carolyn visits almost every day, and when Audiences Unlimited artists are on the calendar, the two make a point to attend each performance. For Carolyn, the music is more than entertainment. It’s an opportunity for a meaningful shared experience with her mother.
Music That Makes a Community Feel Like Home
Before moving to assisted living, Norma lived with Carolyn and her husband for nine years. After some health concerns and an increased fall risk, Carolyn began searching for a place where her mother could receive support while still feeling known and cared for.
Carolyn found that and more at Lutheran Life Villages Pine Valley. “She considers it home,” Carolyn said. “I thank God every day that this is available to her.”
The smaller community setting, caring staff, and daily opportunities for connection have made a difference for Norma. So has the chance to gather with other residents for live music.
“When she lived with us, she mostly stayed in her own living space,” Carolyn said. “There wasn’t a lot of socializing for her. Now she has friends, and those interactions have made a huge difference.” Audiences Unlimited performances add to that sense of belonging, giving everyone a reason to gather and a chance to share in something joyful together.
When Familiar Songs Spark Joy
Carolyn especially appreciates the variety Audiences Unlimited artists bring to each performance. Some songs are light and fun. Others are familiar hymns or patriotic selections that resonate deeply with residents and veterans.
During one recent performance, Carolyn watched as Norma tapped her fingers along with the music. She wasn’t alone. Others sang along or smiled, even those who may not always show much expression. “They remember the words,” Carolyn said. “Music is such a good thing. It has a special way of bringing back fond memories.”
That is part of the power of Audiences Unlimited. Live music can reach people in ways ordinary routines can’t. It can encourage movement, invite singing, and create moments of visible joy.
A Gift for Mothers, Daughters and Whole Communities
For Carolyn, the performances are meaningful because they give her and her mother something beautiful to share. “I’m very blessed,” she said. “A lot of people don’t have that chance to make memories with their aging parents through music. We both enjoy it. I’ll always cherish these times.”
For residents like Norma, the music brings joy. For daughters like Carolyn, it creates memories. And for the communities Audiences Unlimited serves, the music offers a powerful reminder that the arts have a lasting place in every season of life.
